![]() ![]() We don't mean to, it's our pot of boiling pasta that had too much water in it. We all can get grouchy, in a bad mood, and yell at someone we love. Instead of hating the person, I feel bad. Honestly, there are tons of explanations to explain it. Finding a reason to be mad, finding a reason to despise the person, and finding a reason to despite the topic at hand, it helps them let go and not give in, or perhaps they were involved in it, something happened to them, and they are getting mad to try and convince themselves. People can let go of relationships (friends, lover, family) by turning it into anger. They live a life, scared of rejection and perhaps they want to be DDLG but are scared their friends and family close to them won't accept it, so in turn, then reject the notion of it and find a cause for attack. Some people are so scared to be something someone wouldn't like. There is one other reasoning I like to rationalize them with. People who cannot stand others who do things they don't like are into or agree with are generally narcissistic. It can be hard to tell the difference sometimes but someone trying to get you involved in something in their life, like a friend trying to get you into sports or a movie isn't the same thing as verbally, mentally, or physically attacking someone because they don't believe the same as you. People who do things like that are narcissistic, when they try to get you to think like they thing, do what they do. I shake the bad feeling off in several ways. I think I'll just change my username, though. Even if I didn't say it out right, people could just look at my blog and know. I have my Tumblr clearly indicated as DDlg, because I reblog so much DDlg stuff that it might as well be a DDlg blog. They don't have to be so rude and go off on me on a personal level. And if their captions are deleted by someone else, a simple and polite request for me to not reblog their stuff would suffice. ![]() I have been respectful of the fact that alot of people don't want DDlg blogs to reblog their stuff, and so I haven't reblogged anything that said "Do not reblog if DDlg", or things that have indicated anything like that in any way, but when they don't make that clear in their post, and it's so far down the reblog chain, how am I supposed to know? I don't have a problem with them not liking my lifestyle, but I would like them to be clear with that so that I can stay out of their's, ya know. It's just there for you personally to look at in your Likes- assuming your Likes are private. Edited Jby MilkPopĪnother option is to just Heart/Like the post, because then you're not reblogging for it to be sourced back to your blog if they're anti-ddlg. Yet I still repost with the caption out of respect.Īnother option is to just Heart/Like the post, because then you're not reblogging for it to be sourced back to your blog if they're anti-ddlg. Nor do I want to promote that charlatanism). Like, I might see a drawing someone's done and then at the bottom see they're all "Commissions open! $30USD" for this tiny digital piece of crap (which is admittedly cute and I like it, but not $30 worth of Like. Like, do people not realize that everything you post is basically a free for all so far as reblogging? I've never posted anything on there thinking that it's private and should only be reblogged by likeminded people, or that I have a right to say who can or can't. Tumblr is just a constant disappointed head shake to me. OR you can just keep DDLG on the down low so that you can freely repost or whatever you want with no repercussions. But you've got to understand that people don't like it and don't have to, and you have to respect that and be more careful about what you repost. It's not necessary to label your tumblr as DDLG- unless it's so you can find others. And you kinda need to respect that.Īt first I was taken aback and like "Uhm, what? Why not.? Is DDLG a bad thing? Why am I being specifically targeted?" But then realize that it's because of their preconceived notions about DDLG and misunderstandings either from what they've heard down the grape vine or a bad experience they've had with someone who's emitting a bad rep for DDLG. either on the post itself or on that person's Tumblr. Personally on my tumblr I don't generally repost things that're specifically ddlg, like say "Daddy" in them, or title my blog as being a DDLG one.īecause there's plenty of stuff that I want to reblog and it'll say "anti-ddlg" etc. ![]()
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